"LOVE & WAR", SAME SIDE OF COIN.



The guys, who are thinking that they will get tips for LOVE or WAR in this blog, then this blog is not for you. This blog talks about the how LOVE and WAR is same side of coin or love and war goes hand in hand.

It is said that "EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR". since then i have been wondering, why is it that everything is fair in  LOVE and WAR, why not FAIR only in LOVE or WAR  "why". I have meet lots of people, with lots of different opinion,
some said "Love is War",
some said "Love is simple Love",
some said "Love and War are two side of same coin", etc etc...............................
But no one gave me the proper description about why Everything is fair in Love and War.

Then one day i was having a family conversation, i heard my mom saying that " अगर किसी इंसाने को किसी चीज से प्यार हो, दिल से तो वो इंसाने वो चीज को पाने के लिए किसी भी हद तक जा सकता है ". With this phrase i just came across with the thought that Love and War are not two side of coin, it is actually same side of the coin and other side of the coin is the out come of the Love and War.

I tell you why love and war are same side of the coin. Many of you wont agree with me but this is what i think. For this you have to go back to mythological time, the greatest war of the history the RAMAYANA time. In that we we have heard that Ram was in deep love with Sita. When Ravan kidnapped Sita Ram went to extreme of war to bring his love back and the out come of the love and war was the death of ravan

Lets move to other historic example, not far, about 100 to 150 years back where our INDIA was ruled by british yup british , they were in love with their power, ego, etc which lead them to make war and invade India. Fruther when british rule was in full extent it gave birth to many great freedom fighter who lead war to british rule because they were in love with India, in love with freedom, in love with dignity, in love with humanity. And the other part was that british have to leave the country.

Now we come to end of 30's and start of 40's. Where it gave birth to a great dictator, whom we know as HITLER. he was in love with his power, in love with his hatred, in love with is country, in love with himself because of which he raised war with other countries. And the other part was that HITLER had to commit suicide.

Every common man is in love with happiness, peace which involves him in war every day with his life. Now you can create your own example of love and war with my description of love and war.

Everyone says that "MAKE LOVE NOT WAR". But according to me every LOVE is incomplete without WAR.

SO I WOULD SAY THAT MAKE PEACE WITH LOVE SO THAT WAR WONT BE SO BRUTAL.. :)  

ASHOK GHOSH

YOUR NOT ALONE


WHEN YOUR BORN AND WHEN YOU CRY
YOUR MOM HOLDS YOU AND SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU START WALIKNG FOR FIRST TIME AND ABOUT TO FALL
YOUR DAD GRABS YOU AND SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU FIRST TIME ENTER THE SCHOOL AND SEE OTHERS LIKE YOU
YOU SAY YOURSELF YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOUR PARENTS BRING SWEETS FOR YOU
YOUR SISTER PULLS IT FROM YOUR HAND AND SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU FAIL IN EXAM
YOUR BROTHER MOTIVATES YOU SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU OPEN YOUR TIFFIN IN SCHOOL
YOUR FRIENDS HOLDS YOUR TIFFIN AND SAY YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU FIGHT WITH WORLD
YOUR GIRLFRIEND  HOLDS YOUR HAND AND SAY YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOU FEEL LONELY
YOUR QUIETNESS HOLDS YOUR HEAD AND SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOUR LOVED ONCE TURNS BACK TO YOU AND START STAYING APART
YOUR LONLYNESS HOLDS YOU AND SAY YOUR NOT ALONE.

WHEN YOUR PATIENCE STARTS LEAVING YOU
YOUR ANGER HOLDS YOUR HAND  AND SAYS YOUR NOT ALONE.

IN  THIS MEAN WORLD YOUR NEVER ALONE SOME ONE IS ALWAYS THERE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BEAUTIFUL OR TRY TO MAKE IT HELLLLLLLLLLL................ ALWAYSSSSSSSSSSS....................................



ASHOK GHOSH